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How does love happen? Does it start from likeness? Does it start with a 'spark', or with a 'click'? Or does it grow on people i.e. the more time you spend with the person you don't dislike, the more you like each other, and the fondness grows into something more? Or is it something you can control and decide for it to happen?

ax^2 + bx + c = love (plagarised from jap movie), an indeterminate equation that cannot be solved. Love cannot be put into any construct in the first place. Sigh. making it so hard to understand. So you don't understand how it works, how do you even manage it? Is there a correct response to such things?

Is it possible to accidentally fall in love with someone?

Or maybe falling in love is over-rated? No i'm not bitter. It depends i guess, on what you want. Do you want a relationship with intense head-over-heels romance (usually during the first 3 months - honeymoon, immediate-post-courtship period)? Or you want to have someone you feel comfortable with, or someone you want to spend your lives together with, or someone you feel a sense of security with.

Now that I am playing my top 10 lancing songs, and have got 1 week of no work (but am sucha loser to not go anywhere), I have time to think about such inconsequential stuff.