Had an interesting conversation recently, on the part 1 and part 2 of love and loving. I suppose part 1 refers to the falling in love, and part 2 the being in love. Some people are rational then irrational, others irrational then rational, and there must be rational-rational (boring ppl) and the irrational-irrational (crazy and slightly-fused-up-there ppl). Nothing is right or wrong, as long as two people are happy together.

love and relationships. Love is not equal to relationship. Relationship is not equal to love. Nothing much to say, just a random thought.

Took 2 Likeness quiz in facebook. I am amused. 2 quizzes showed that

i) I am as cool as a cucumber
You've got a great attitude going on - friendly, laid-back, open to new experiences. Anyone should want to hang out with you, and if they don't - well, that's their problem, not yours. Just let it roll off your back. We're pretty sure you do that anyway.

Don't be afraid to show a little attitude every once in a while - it's cool being cool, but it's also pretty nice to get your way and influence the people around you. A little bit. We wouldn't want you to lose your cucumber-ness.

I like the cucumber-ness ;)

ii) My perfect relationship is "friends with benefits"

Let's be honest here: you're not looking for a relationship at all. You'd much rather have a makeout partner and still be free to flirt with whoever you want.

Do us all a favor and stay away from Relationship Land. Find someone who's just as commitment-phobic as you are.

Appalling and shocking. I do not believe it is true. I LOVE relationships. ha.. But if the cucumber-ness is true......

*reminder to self - speak out and speak up, at every possible opportunity, without hesitation to use the opportunity. and make yourself heard.